As I was merely a squaddies wife I had no need to hate anyone - other than those who saw wifes as just a cling on of army no.... and yes I do remember my exes number, too.

Hi Mags,

I can only think of a stevie whitbread in 50 - was that who you were married to. I'm sorry if I should remember you but my memory ain't great with names - ask my wife! Better with faces.

anyway, get back in touch if you honestly remember me.

Tam