Few months before my brother beat me even when I am a woman elder to him. He was selfish and he wanted that I should serve him even when his wife was jealous upon me and tried to put quarrels in between me and my younger brother. She was also insisting that we should (I and my parents) should leave "her" house (and not my brother's house) (she always kept on saying that this is my house).

Finally, when I told my brother that she is trying all the means to separate us because she wants freedom of everything in her house, she also thought of many negative things like we are trying to separate them both, which is not true. She messed up my brother's mind in such a way that he told us to leave the house and take another house.

By the grace and will of God, I and my parents were able to take a separate house for us, however, I was trying to avoid my parents since 33 years because they are non-supportive parents. When my brother was beating me, my parents were watching it like statue and had no guts to protect their daughter, means me.

Also, the very next day my father and mother went to comfort my brother, yelling at me that I am the one who always made quarrels. They have never understood me in my whole life and I have lived a life like an orphan. I am not married and I am waiting for God to reveal when I will get married so that I can have a great comfort at God's home.

I want a man from God, my parents do not know Jesus Christ and that is what is keeping me worried.

What should I do?

Khushi,

Grace unto you, and peace,
from God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ.

Troubles and worries only happen when we still give place to law. For even if we are on the right side of law/grace, it is still division (unrest), not peace; still partiality, not perfection; and still jeopardy, not harmless.

Harmless is above all sides wars, higher than the heavens, more grown up than children vs children, more free than servants vs servants, more unified than goats/sheep, more perfect than law/grace.

So we leave all sides wars for higher God and Son (Grace and Peace) which are above law vs law and law vs grace sides wars; Because sides wars have side effects, even if it's war in heaven.

True Grace is not the childish grace of law/grace, but the grown up Grace above law/grace. James calls it pure relgion and pure wisdom. Paul notes our high priest went higher to become harmless.

So never mind who is wrong/right in your sides war, because even if right it's still division, not peace; still partiality, not perfection; still jeopardy, not harmless. So rise above the sides war by stop giving any place at all to law (worketh wrath is harmful).

When you do that, even worry will vanish; And until you do that worry will attract trouble like a magnet.

The grace of our Lord Jesus Christ with you all. Amen.